Have you been flirting with someone and want some ideas of how to get him turned on even if you’re not in the same room? Texting plays an enormous role in modern romance. Sexting allows you to get turned on in the palm of your fingertips and has the power to bring closeness, heighten intimacy, and multiply the sexual energy between you and that guy you have your eye on. Basically, sexting is sexy.
The reality is that it has never been so easy to excite a man or women, make them want you, and drive them crazy with desire and mystery. Before we get into what you need to be texting right now, I asked a few gals a couple questions on sexting and the responses are below.
Who do you sext with?Women #1: People I’m flirting with, whether I’ve met them at a club, through mutual friends, or online. I’ve probably sexted the most with randoms on Tinder. I like tinder a lot.
Women #2: I didn’t really sext until recently, when I met a guy who has to travel a lot for work. It keeps us connected when we’re not together. I know that if I am lonely I can just send a text and receive a dick pic in minutes.
Women#3: I sext with anyone. Honestly it’s almost hard to no these days because of how horny everyone is all the time. Guy’s can be so flirty and dirty, so why not have fun and flirt back.
Men #1: Mainly with girls that I’ve hit up on social networking/hookup sites like Tinder.
Men #2: When I first started sexting, I did it with whoever seemed fun.
How often do you sext?
Women #1: I don’t really know. It depends on the week or the day that I have had. If I am sad and want to feel good about myself I’ll just pick up my phone and start sexting.
Women #2: My guy and I talk every day, but we sext around once a week, sometimes more.
Women #3: Often, very often. I love it…it’s fun.
Men#1: Sexting happens everyday for me. There are so many girls that want to sext that it is almost inevitable to ignore the thirst for nudes.
Men#1: I used to sext all the time. It didn’t matter where I was; I even did it sitting next to friends and at work. I do it less often now, ’cause I grew out of it. I’d
rather do the real thing with someone special.
What do you like about sexting?
Women #1: You can be verbal: You don’t always get to use your words during real sex. Some people love to talk dirty but that can also lead to a lot of awkward silences in the bedroom and you may not be down for that.
Women #2: Sexting let’s you get better at talking so next time you head to the bedroom, or wherever you go, you will be a pro. Face-to-face dirty talk is a good time, just don’t overthink it and let it be fun. Let the conversation unfold naturally and don’t try too hard to come up with something super-sexy to say.
Women #3: Sexting can be used as a distraction. If you’re feeling anxious, all you have to do is text your boyfriend and get him to send you a dick pic or a flirty message about what he wants to do to you tonight. That thing that concerned you five minutes ago is nowhere near on your radar now.
Men #1: Sexting is the modern day relationship and it is becoming more and more popular and kids are starting to pick up on sexting as young as middle school.
Men #2: If you’ve been in a dating black hole and your game is not happening, a good, lasting sexting session will sustain you for a long time. You can just go back and re-read the conversation later if you get horny again.
Have you ever felt pressured to send a sext that you didn’t want to send?
Women #1: Sometimes there is pressure from the guy to show the goods, but I’ve only sent nudes to guys who I have known for a long time.
Women #2: No. Not at all, I only send what I want to send.
Women #3: The person on the opposite side of the screen loves you for who you are and expects all of your nerdiness, quirkiness, and sheer awesomeness to radiate in your messages – even the dirty ones. So don’t be nervous, get dirty and have fun!
Men #1: I have never felt pressured to send a sext, and I never force anyone to send a sext.
Men #2: Yes… sometimes I am insecure about my body. I know if I am sending sexts I want to do it with someone I know and like.
There you have it ladies and gents. Real life sexting advice from real men and women. Now let’s get down to business and figure out just what guys really want to
see when you send that sext.
Boobs. If your mission is to sext, you can’t go wrong with nudity. Guys like full-body shots, but if you can’t be bothered go ahead and send a close-up. Guys want to see your tits though, not feel like I am in your anatomy book, so not too close.
Boobs, covered. Sometimes seeing not the whole thing is just as exciting as seeing the full thing. Some strategically placed objects (or your hands) over the important parts can get him all riled up.
Detailed, descriptive messages about what you want to do to him later. Use lots of adjectives (like “wet” and “hard”) and talk in a lot of detail, as if you were explaining it to someone who’s never had sex before.
A fantasy or a sex dream you just had. Just letting him know you’re turned on will turn him on. Horniness is contagious.
Inappropriate sexts. Be that girl who sends him a sext when you know he’s in a meeting or out at a bar with his friends. He will feel like it is so wrong, and so weird to have a boner while his boss is presenting their newest health insurance plans for the company.
Sexy Snapchats. Even if it is silly, your guy or girl will appreciate the fun.
Congratulations, you are now a sexting pro.